Here are a few tested and true ways to improve your game:

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All too often, we bring out wings that we just like hanging around. We also like to believe that no one can tell us anything after we’ve spent a considerable amount of time in the field. This is a mistake. You should be bringing along a wing that has a competent understanding of the game and it’s theories. He doesn’t have to be great in-field, but he should understand what is going on. I’ve tested this stuff (game material), and most of it works, but the problem is that once we start talking to women, most of what we’ve learned goes out of the window. All of a sudden, we fall into our old habits. How do you break this? If you have a wing observing you during every set, he can see and somewhat hear what you’re doing wrong after each set. And after each set, he can tell you what he observed and you can make corrections on the spot for your next set. This is my main strategy when I’m training guys. I use to criticize them after the night, but I found that if I criticize them on the spot, and show them right then and there, they can make improvements right then and there instead of waiting until the next night when the previous suggestions are often forgotten about.

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For example, I’ve stopped wearing my labret out half of the time, and I’ve stopped wearing my fancy clothes on certain nights. Why? To practice gaming without my crutches and force myself to pay more attention to the words coming out of my mouth. You’ll find that once you have a crutch, whether it’s your social circle, alcohol, special item or whatever, you’ll come to rely on it, so what do you do when you don’t have it? You freeze up. It’s always good to practice gaming without your crutches, as it makes you mentally stronger and more capable in the long run.

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This is a big one that I’ve noticed with almost every guy that I’ve come across in the PUA community. That is, they read a guide once, and never read it again. They tend to forget that guides aren’t books to be read and forgotten about; they are meant to be studied and worked on little by little. My greatest improvements came when I stopped just reading guides and actually studied them night after night after night. I hated it, but by reading a guide over and over again, I could see what I should have done differently in my interactions with women. What 99% of PUA’s will do, is read the guide once (maybe twice if it‘s from their favorite guru), spend most of their time on forums discussing the GENERAL idea of various methods, chit-chat with other PUA’s about women, but they never take the time to learn the intricacies. For instance, most of you know that The Mystery Method consists of “Attract”, “Comfort”, and “Seduce”, and you may even know a few key terms like “neg” and “peacocking”, but very few of you understand the intricacies of The Mystery Method, such as when you should neg, when you should pull a girl away from her friends, what are a few prerequisites before approaching a “10”, and what is the real purpose of an opener. It was really amazing to see the reactions of a few guys on forums when I posted a few quotes from The Mystery Method to prove them wrong about what they THOUGHT it was about. This was a clear indicator that either these guys read the guide once, or were just going off of what other people were saying in the latest seduction community gossip. They weren’t actually putting in the time to actually learn the material. And perhaps this is why their game remains mediocre.

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We often avoid what I like to call conscious gaming. And what this is, is being fully aware of the words coming out of your mouth BEFORE they come out. Again, many PUA’s tend to avoid this. Why? Because it is difficult, so PUA’s often talk to girls like every other guy that‘s approached these women. I’ve observed this over and over and over again with PUA’s. There is no order to the sentences leaving their mouths. When I’m serious, I think before I talk, and in my head, I ask “Where am I at?” and “Where do I want this to go?”. In other words think “Why am I saying this and what is it’s purpose?” When you think in terms of “What is the purpose of saying this?”, then you can begin to effectively structuralize your game.

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